Which mentality is better to have?

[pfsjkd]

"So what is better, to be an intimidating shit talker with a short fuse who bust people up at the drop of a hat, or to be humble, cool headed, guy with a long fuse who absouloutly EXPLODES with rage when you piss him off."

As I see it, either way is gonna land you in jail, the hospital, or the morgue. Your friend's just gonna get there a little quicker.