My martial arts instructor has been telling me to be relaxed when grappling so i can get the techniques on easier but when i do relax everyone else just uses strength, the adults that is, and i get taken down and can't hold someone "back" from getting a technique on, sounds stupid i know.
So all you bjj,judo,jujitsu people how do you move about when grappling?
So all you bjj,judo,jujitsu people how do you move about when grappling?