Just finished reading the thread. Very good stuff. One of the problems I had was that I didn't really want to teach. I got into martial arts because I liked the competition when I was wrestling, and I was much too old to try and do that here. Not to mention that there aren't any wrestling clubs in the area, so martial arts was the next best thing. The next problem was that I really didn't truly understand most peoples motivation. My own motivation was personal development, and to have some fun. I understood that some people were motivated from fear, some wanted to be "tough" guys and some were just curious, but very few were self motivated enough to realistically do self assessments and do whatever it took to get better. Most wanted to go through the motions while "training".
I tried to keep it as simple as possible, by only teaching hands initially, working on the assumption that most people would be reasonably coordinated w/ their hands. I taught no kicking at all. I'd demonstrate simple wing chun style foot work, and cut back to only teaching the Hung Gar tiger/crane form, which has pretty straight forward techniques w/ only a few simple kicks.
I was pretty excited to get one of Safakhoos students who had broken some guys jaw who had tried to rob her at an ATM. I thought I was getting someone who at least had the basics down. After an assessment, I realized that she was lucky she hadn't gotten hurt or killed. Made her work on simple elbow strikes to help her coordinate the arm and body motions, then after a few days added the hand and forearm. She did actually learn to perform a basic thrust punch w/ power but still needed to learn how to deliver power to a target. She didn't quite last a week. Some people just seemed to be satisfied to learn to "dance".
There seems to be quite a few people that are guilty of self-deception. I always tried to teach that they should realistically assess their strengths and weaknesses. One of Safakhoos students that started before me just doesn't seem to want to acknowledge where he's lacking. I finally ended up telling him that Safakhoo would always warn me to go easy on him when sparring, and that I'd always held back when sparring anyone. No one had every seen what I could really do. However I was always well aware that my kicking skills were inferior to the better kickers. Plus I knew there was more to learn than I could possibly absorb in my lifetime.
Anyway this one guy has been teaching his cousin for at least 10 years. Plus his cousin studied w/ Safakhoo. Periodically they'd stop by so the cousin could see how he was progressing. I'd do some light sparring w/ him and give him some tips. There was no improvement at all. The last time they stopped by, I must have been in a bad mood or something, because I just got fed up that we were still playing this game. I just walked into him completely open, tripped him and stopped everything he threw. Let him grab me by the throat w/ a "tiger claw", and ignored it as it was no threat. It took about 5 seconds to destroy his foundation. I didn't throw any kicks or hands at all, and no fancy footwork.
Afterwards I explained to him that what he was doing had no power and his foundation was weak. He countered by pointing out his "score" w/ the tiger claw. I then told him I'd ignored it because it wasn't a threat, and demonstrating by ridgehanding myself in the throat w/ force. Then I told him to grab me by the throat and choke me w/ his "tiger claw". Of course no effect either. I just couldn't understand how he'd gone so long w/o realizing that he wasn't really learning anything.
I think the "Training Progress" thread is very good for people that truly want to learn. For people that only think they want to learn, I don't know. I think a good teacher is one that can teach a person whether they want to learn or not. I don't fall into that category. I just don't understand peoples motivations or how to motivate them.
Sorry for making this so long winded.
I tried to keep it as simple as possible, by only teaching hands initially, working on the assumption that most people would be reasonably coordinated w/ their hands. I taught no kicking at all. I'd demonstrate simple wing chun style foot work, and cut back to only teaching the Hung Gar tiger/crane form, which has pretty straight forward techniques w/ only a few simple kicks.
I was pretty excited to get one of Safakhoos students who had broken some guys jaw who had tried to rob her at an ATM. I thought I was getting someone who at least had the basics down. After an assessment, I realized that she was lucky she hadn't gotten hurt or killed. Made her work on simple elbow strikes to help her coordinate the arm and body motions, then after a few days added the hand and forearm. She did actually learn to perform a basic thrust punch w/ power but still needed to learn how to deliver power to a target. She didn't quite last a week. Some people just seemed to be satisfied to learn to "dance".
There seems to be quite a few people that are guilty of self-deception. I always tried to teach that they should realistically assess their strengths and weaknesses. One of Safakhoos students that started before me just doesn't seem to want to acknowledge where he's lacking. I finally ended up telling him that Safakhoo would always warn me to go easy on him when sparring, and that I'd always held back when sparring anyone. No one had every seen what I could really do. However I was always well aware that my kicking skills were inferior to the better kickers. Plus I knew there was more to learn than I could possibly absorb in my lifetime.
Anyway this one guy has been teaching his cousin for at least 10 years. Plus his cousin studied w/ Safakhoo. Periodically they'd stop by so the cousin could see how he was progressing. I'd do some light sparring w/ him and give him some tips. There was no improvement at all. The last time they stopped by, I must have been in a bad mood or something, because I just got fed up that we were still playing this game. I just walked into him completely open, tripped him and stopped everything he threw. Let him grab me by the throat w/ a "tiger claw", and ignored it as it was no threat. It took about 5 seconds to destroy his foundation. I didn't throw any kicks or hands at all, and no fancy footwork.
Afterwards I explained to him that what he was doing had no power and his foundation was weak. He countered by pointing out his "score" w/ the tiger claw. I then told him I'd ignored it because it wasn't a threat, and demonstrating by ridgehanding myself in the throat w/ force. Then I told him to grab me by the throat and choke me w/ his "tiger claw". Of course no effect either. I just couldn't understand how he'd gone so long w/o realizing that he wasn't really learning anything.
I think the "Training Progress" thread is very good for people that truly want to learn. For people that only think they want to learn, I don't know. I think a good teacher is one that can teach a person whether they want to learn or not. I don't fall into that category. I just don't understand peoples motivations or how to motivate them.
Sorry for making this so long winded.
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