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At no point in my post did I say I was more mature than anyone person all I said is that I have become more mature. Seems to me Mike Brewer agrees with that since these are all real PM's I recieved from him in the last year.
There were also several telling me to ignore the idiots or people who like to poke and prod.
If my response wasn't to your liking it doesn't make it a fit. Being honest is a sign of maturity I gave you an honest answer.
Boar may not seem like a mature person because he fought what you had to say with the same attitude you and your underlings on here gave him. Why should he ignore what you say and allow you to run rampant on him.
I ignore members on here who continue to belittle me and call me a homosexual if it keeps up believe me there is a mature way to handle it and I have no problem taking that route.
When was the last time I "got into it" with any member on this forum? There have been several threads I posted once or twice in and when they headed into a childish or argumentative direction that was not constructive I left.
So once again the hypocrisy shows.
So who determines who I should ignore. I don't think I need to ask permission to decide for myself. Which is it? Answer everyone or ignore people who I feel are wasting my time?
You seem to be contradicting yourself a lot on these boards.
I have admitted openly that I was not and am not always the most mature person...but show me who here is?
Maturity is an ongoing process that should never stop just like learning.
If you take my responses as a hissy fit then spin them however you want that's fine. Just know that when I originally said I'd ignore you I was taking your advice. Doesn't seem like I want to follow that route given the evidence of character here.
And Tant I could never perceive anything you say as other than genuine and I get the feeling I would know if you meant it as a threat. I know you from places other than this.
Having children did help a lot, and every bit of good advice about raising my son came from Boar. I had shitty examples for parents and my mother and father-in-law have admitted they aren't the ones to ask for advice. Everyone in the family says my child is the most aware most well behaved out of all of them and he's 2 years old.
If people want to hear my response in there head as me being frustrated that's fine they can spin it how they want. A whole lot of that goes on around here. You're right for all we know Brewer could just be a chairborne warrior wanna be, but he banned Boar for calling his character out, so should I just allow him to call mine out and shrug my shoulders, while he gives people advice on poisoning patrons of the establishment they work it. Then tries to play it off as a joke weeks later? Mentally unstable people do crazy shit. People backed into corners like the guy who posted may take this stuff literally don't you think Tant?
Boar has told me many times that my temper will hurt me and that I needed to control it. For a while he refused to teach me because of it.
It really came into perspective when he told me it would effect my son because kids are "monkey see, monkey do".
People can take this as a fit if they want but I'm cool as a cucumber right now. And if I was taking my ball and going home I would've stopped posting here a looong time ago.
It's not taking my ball and leaving it's like my mom used to say "You are who you associate with" so I choose not to associate with certain people that I feel my harm my reputation with their bad advice or foolishness. And that my friend is a matter of opinion and I am allowed to hold whatever opinion I want.
Some people may confuse passion for what you believe in as being anger and frustration but those are people of little minds. I may not have been the model citizen and I have a ways to go, however I feel I have grown and the people around me do too, that's all I need.
What I don't understand is how ignoring people isn't mature (even though I was told it was) appealing to the Mods isn't mature, and answering the fools back isn't mature.
So Tant tell me what is mature? What course of action is considered to be mature?
I'm directing this to you because out of everyone here other than Tom Yum you are a model of maturity in my eyes.
Originally posted by Mike Brewer
Originally posted by Mike Brewer
Originally posted by Mike Brewer
Originally posted by Mike Brewer
There were also several telling me to ignore the idiots or people who like to poke and prod.
If my response wasn't to your liking it doesn't make it a fit. Being honest is a sign of maturity I gave you an honest answer.
Boar may not seem like a mature person because he fought what you had to say with the same attitude you and your underlings on here gave him. Why should he ignore what you say and allow you to run rampant on him.
I ignore members on here who continue to belittle me and call me a homosexual if it keeps up believe me there is a mature way to handle it and I have no problem taking that route.
When was the last time I "got into it" with any member on this forum? There have been several threads I posted once or twice in and when they headed into a childish or argumentative direction that was not constructive I left.
So once again the hypocrisy shows.
Originally posted by Mike Brewer
You seem to be contradicting yourself a lot on these boards.
I have admitted openly that I was not and am not always the most mature person...but show me who here is?
Maturity is an ongoing process that should never stop just like learning.
If you take my responses as a hissy fit then spin them however you want that's fine. Just know that when I originally said I'd ignore you I was taking your advice. Doesn't seem like I want to follow that route given the evidence of character here.
And Tant I could never perceive anything you say as other than genuine and I get the feeling I would know if you meant it as a threat. I know you from places other than this.
Originally posted by Tant01
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Off topic!
And since KOTF is off on another hissy fit
I'll just kindly ask him to clarify what he means (exactly) by BS (Boar Spear) helping him become a real human being?
Is it that it developes a sense of responsibility...? Having kids will do that too.
Does art become your "way of being" your way of "doing" things? Does the physical destruction give you an appreciation for well being? Do words frustrate you to the point that you can no longer function rationally? Is that "mature"???
How easily we resort to the frog brain by PERCEIVED threats! Reality check? You're READING me.
No harm at all outside of some emotional attachment we have placed on VIRTUAL reality???
Think about it?
Keep things in perspective... Mike is just some pretty boy GI on the Internet, right?
You've never shook his hand? Looked him in the eye? Met his wife and kid?
You don't know jack about me but I consider you (and Boar) my e-buddies. I would never "attack" you personally over some internet forum...
How have you grown as civilized hominid at the hands of your master?
Seriously, do tell?
And since KOTF is off on another hissy fit
I'll just kindly ask him to clarify what he means (exactly) by BS (Boar Spear) helping him become a real human being? Is it that it developes a sense of responsibility...? Having kids will do that too.
Does art become your "way of being" your way of "doing" things? Does the physical destruction give you an appreciation for well being? Do words frustrate you to the point that you can no longer function rationally? Is that "mature"???
How easily we resort to the frog brain by PERCEIVED threats! Reality check? You're READING me.
No harm at all outside of some emotional attachment we have placed on VIRTUAL reality???
Think about it?
Keep things in perspective... Mike is just some pretty boy GI on the Internet, right?
You've never shook his hand? Looked him in the eye? Met his wife and kid?
You don't know jack about me but I consider you (and Boar) my e-buddies. I would never "attack" you personally over some internet forum...
How have you grown as civilized hominid at the hands of your master?
Seriously, do tell?
If people want to hear my response in there head as me being frustrated that's fine they can spin it how they want. A whole lot of that goes on around here. You're right for all we know Brewer could just be a chairborne warrior wanna be, but he banned Boar for calling his character out, so should I just allow him to call mine out and shrug my shoulders, while he gives people advice on poisoning patrons of the establishment they work it. Then tries to play it off as a joke weeks later? Mentally unstable people do crazy shit. People backed into corners like the guy who posted may take this stuff literally don't you think Tant?
Boar has told me many times that my temper will hurt me and that I needed to control it. For a while he refused to teach me because of it.
It really came into perspective when he told me it would effect my son because kids are "monkey see, monkey do".
People can take this as a fit if they want but I'm cool as a cucumber right now. And if I was taking my ball and going home I would've stopped posting here a looong time ago.
It's not taking my ball and leaving it's like my mom used to say "You are who you associate with" so I choose not to associate with certain people that I feel my harm my reputation with their bad advice or foolishness. And that my friend is a matter of opinion and I am allowed to hold whatever opinion I want.
Some people may confuse passion for what you believe in as being anger and frustration but those are people of little minds. I may not have been the model citizen and I have a ways to go, however I feel I have grown and the people around me do too, that's all I need.
What I don't understand is how ignoring people isn't mature (even though I was told it was) appealing to the Mods isn't mature, and answering the fools back isn't mature.
So Tant tell me what is mature? What course of action is considered to be mature?
I'm directing this to you because out of everyone here other than Tom Yum you are a model of maturity in my eyes.
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