Help im being stalked!!!!!

[LittleDemon]

Hi everyone, i have a huge favour to ask of everyone, this person keeps emailing em threatening emails and has been ringing my sifu causing and then emailing me asking me if he told me about them, it sfreaking me out he says he knows where i train and he will follow me home and find out where i live i know hes telling the truth because he told me that i train ever monday night at the gym where i train with the exact times.

His email address is [emaill address deleted] so if you could send him emails back just as threatening it would help a lot i think he dosen't realise that i have quite a few friends in the martial arts who would gladly rip the head off anyone who so much as touched me in a threatening way as i would to anyone who went after my kung fu brothers or sisters.

I know its asking a lot.

Thanks,

Em

[Thai Bri]

Em, you are kind of asking for it by having that site full of pouting pictures of yourself. I told you this the first time you posted here, as did many other people. I'm sure the whacko won't be up for giving you any real, physical harm..... but you have put yourself on offer for this kind of harrassment.

And other people should NOT get involved by sending threatening emails etc. You're just spreading the grief to them by asking. Grow up a bit girl.

Anyway, now you're seething at me, here is the good news. Re the depression issue some great people are wishing you well. Go here

http://message.geoffthompson.com/ubb/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=3;t=000434

Check back regularly. There will be more.

[LittleDemon]

Hiya

Hiya, Having a good day today, not feeling so down although yesterday was horrible day i founbd that i was crying like a person would throw up it was spontaneous id cry then feel better then just start all over again.

Thai i dont have any personal details up on my web site of myself not where i train my age, home address nothing. I dont even have my Sifu Paul Hawkes details up there so i dont see how this guy could have said to paul that he got his details from my web site because there not on there. Is it a crime to post pictures that my friends want me to post up there?

How can anyone be "asking" to be stalked im not the cause of this persons actions they are just like that ebcause they are screwed up in the head and have picked me as their target unfortunately.

This person is very childish and immature and i will not be paying any attention to the empty threats because if they really want to come after me i wish they would hurry up and do it already so i could take them down. I really dont care anymore ive had enough ive been through this ordeal once before already before i even had a web site *its a long story* and if i have to go through it again i will gladly find out who this person is and bring an abrupt end to their phone calls and emails.

Im not afraid of human beings and if someone wants to come after me then so be it but who ever touches me in an innaporpriate manner will soon learn i am not a sweet and innocent woman and i have a nasty bite thats more worse then my bark.

I reduced a guy to tears over the phone once id found out he had been two timing me with my best friend he then phoned up the next day and profuously apologised and said that he was so sorry and didn't mean to hurt me or my best friend and he was terrified i would beat him up but i accepted his apology because it takes a big person to be able to apologise for their faults and ive never seen or heard from him since.

I was beaten up v badly by my ex-boyfriend because he got the wrong end of a stick when iwent out for a meal with a close male friend of mine that has knwon me since we were babies and hes like the older brother i never had because he was the son of my mums best friend, my boyfriend got a heads up i was meeting *a guy* and got one of his friends to follow me then without talking to me about it got me on my own in a park being all lovey dovey then wne to kiss me and pucnhed me right across my face then kicked and hit me with his chain on his jeans i thought if i fought back he would kill me. I owe him my revenge still and its been 3 years but he has to live with it for the rest of his life and that is revenge enough, so yeah i know how it feels to be beaten up by a man im just glad i got away with my life and im stornger then ever now because if a man so much as touches me in a way i dont want he will soon eb very sorry.

I never asked for any of this Thai and it was a little cruel of you to say something like that but i know you only meant it in the nicest way possible, thank you for the message board link it cheered me up a lot and brought a tear to my eye but tears of happiness

Thank you for looking out for me.

Love Em,
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[IPON]

This person is very childish and immature and i will not be paying any attention to the empty threats because if they really want to come after me i wish they would hurry up and do it already so i could take them down.

I know you are upset,but even in depression don't make boasts like this. The fact is YOU DO NOT want this person to actually come after you. You are not able to beat every man (or woman) so don't encourage trouble.

I think that Bri is correct it seems this person is emailing you and calls the kwoon. While yuo may not have posted the information on you web site you did post the information here, So what Bri is stating is not a stretch. I don't think you should be overly concerned but again do not invite trouble.

P.s. I am sorry to hear what happened with your ex-boyfriend. There are Men and there are males. This is not a problem with Men.

[eXcessiveForce]

to phrase it a bit differently, you made it very easy for this person to find you. So you did not ask for it, and this persons actions are not your fault, you just made yourself a perfect target

How many martial arts school could be around where you live,which is posted right under your name, or have anything to do with JKD You have posted your name, so that makes it easier. You posted the picture, so now the person if they are close could actually locate you by sight.


Sending threatening emails back or trying to intimidate stalkers has gotten people killed. Do not escalate the matter further. It won't help this time, but remove your location from your posts and your site. If you must post pics do not lable them. It would be better just not to post pics.

And please do not ask others on this site to get invovled, they cannot help the situation. Nor am I saying your story isn't true but they have no way of knowing whether it is.

[LittleDemon]

I haven't emailed this person back ive just tried to ignore them, im going through in my mind possibilities of people who it might be and i can't think of anyone, none of my friends outside of martial arts class are interested in martial arts and i see them every thursday most of them are have boyfriends or girlfriends and are relatively down to earth people.

I haven't seen or spoken to my ex boyfriend for 3 yrs so it cant be him because he still in a relationship with some girl as far as i know, and as for other people i really cant think of anybody.

It could just be a childish prank im not sure but if it is they dont seem to realise i have their email address and this can then be traced by the police if things get out of hand.

My house security is very high as we were burgaled 3 yrs ago and they came into the house and my ebdroom when i was asleep in there so now the security around my house is very tight.

I alway's go out with friends and arrange transportation to where i am meeting them and back and i alway's get someone to wait with me if i am getting picked up, its so confusing the whole thing i dont understand why anyone would want to start stirring up trouble between me and my martial arts lifestyle it just dosen;t make any sense? i mean why go through all the trouble to ring up my instructor and say really weird and twisted things then ask me whether he has told me or not in a message with the same message repeated over and over again???

This is not usual adult behaviour and its what makes me think its probably some stupid amateur teenager or child playing a prank.

If things get out of hand ill get the police involved im not stupid and i know that taking on a stalker is just plain rediculous but what i am saying is that if someone did come after me and try to attack me id like to see them try it id have them blinded, paralyzed and castrated before they could scream out their own mothers name.

[Tom Yum]

Emma, remove your contact information from the website. Never advertise your personal information over the web. Whomever began contacting you easily retrieved a picture of you and clues to your where abouts.

You should talk this over with your sifu. Don't dwell over this incident, but be smart about yourself and your surrounding.

[LittleDemon]

but i dont have any perosnal contact details posted on my web site only my email address which is requred so i get messages from members posted on my web site through to my email accoutn to see who has psoted what etc and thats it no phone number no home address nothing not even my instructors detals so i dont know what the hell is going on!!!!

[Tom Yum]

There's other ways of getting that information; they are probably tech savy.

Relax. Talk it over with your sifu, then get on with your life.

[LittleDemon]

tech savy? i dont understand the term? i wouldnt believe for a second it is someone in my class because we have known each other for so many years and they are all too mature to play such childish pranks but i will be seeing them tomorrow so i shall find otu, i have talked it over with my sifu because he told me he has been getting weird phone calls with people putting on fake accents and insulting him!!!

[LittleDemon]

Well how do you suggest i go about it, i don;t want to make things worse then they already are and maybe it will call this stalker's bluff as soon as he sees im getting the law involved mayeb he will back oof? i juts dont see any other way out of the situation? what do you suppose?

[Tom Yum]

tech savy?

Yes, tech savy. We average folks are tech barbarians; probably a few tech savy chaps having a laugh at your expense. One of the chaps is the intimidator and the others (probably several) are the instigators. Probably people that you've never met; atleast in the sense of your own neighborhood. Our society is becoming exponentially wired and only a few people seem to be realizing this.

If anything, you should try to learn more about information technology and communication systems just for your own educational purposes- hey, it could be a future job. Otherwise, keep yourself aware of your surroundings. That's just good advice for you to keep in general.

[LittleDemon]

i hope it is just guys being tech savy because then it will be a weight off my worried mind and yeah ill want to kill those responsible but i can laugh it off if it is the case.

[Tom Yum]

Regardless, be aware of your surroundings. That's a smart thing and a necessity for any young woman this day and age.

[LittleDemon]

and believe me when i tell you dont i just know how important that fact is when i was very nrly attacked in broad daylight by a guy, i was sitting on a bench on looking a park on my lunch break from work this guy walks past me stops turns round bows his head down and marches straight towards me i got up and ran into the park he gave chase but then i spotted a crowded place and he backed off!!!