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  • #16
    for you to have had this many experiences with attackers and stalkers, you really need to take a hard look at what you may be doing to make yourself look like such a large target. Many people go though their entire lives never being attacked or stalked, you have managed for this to happen repeated times.

    Also, no one needs your info to find out who you are. Some could get it from your IP address, others from you picture(they would live close to you) other from saying you live where you do and that you are in martial arts.


    think about it, Your pic is easy (your website), your city is easy( your posts here, it's on every single one of them) That you are in martial arts(here and the website) To talk to you with out knowing who they were, (here and the website) So with that they drive and sit by a martial arts school for a few weeks until look who they see popping out. Or they call each martial arts school in the area, and say something like "my daughters friends, I think her names emma asked her to come to class with her, i'm not sure if I have the right place though, do you have a girl named emma there?" There are lots of ways to get information. It would take the average person less than a week to find out who you are, where you live, and what your phone number is. For an above average person less than 20 minutes i'd bet.

    So listen when we tell you, get your info off the net. Check over your posts to make sure you are not revealing your identity if you wish to avoid this type thing in the future.

    Also realize you probably do not know the person if he is really a stalker. They rarely stalk people they know, unless it is from a previous relationship or something.

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    • #17
      enough with the thrid degress already i GET THE POINT!!!!! i need advice on how to deal with the situation not on what has got me into this mess in the first place not much i can do about it now is there???

      So would everyone just back off telling me what is wrong with this picture and if your not going to give me advice on how to handle the situation then dont bother posting at all i feel smothered with everyone telling me its my fault and im in the wrong and if ive been stalked before *which was only on the one occasion and i knew who that was because he was an aquainatance of my ex-boyfriend*

      im already scared anough of the whole thing as it is without everyone laying into me so either post advice or BACK OFF!!!! ok"

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      • #18
        right now there probably not much you can do. you don't know who they are or where they are or how they picked you.

        so for now, better just stay aware and make sure you make it hard for the person to find out any more.

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        • #19
          Originally posted by LittleDemon
          So would everyone just back off telling me what is wrong with this picture and if your not going to give me advice on how to handle the situation

          Hi Emma,

          I think everyone is trying to be helpful and ensure that this situation does not happen again. This is no different that any othe form of SD. I would worry too much about this prankster, this person is just getting kicks at your expense. Like excessiveforce said there is very little you can do, honestly even going to the police will be of little help. The best advice is for you not to respond and encourage this nut. Infact, you should have a function in your " email options" that allow you to block email so you could bl,ock this person's email.

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          • #20
            Originally posted by HandtoHand
            Drop all pretences of being tough because it's incredibly transparent and call the police. You’re a fragile little flower and to think otherwise is sheer stupidity. There might be a bit of a prick but it's certainly nothing to get a purple heart over.

            A case of the Cinderella Complex meeting Feminist Macho Complex can cause women to act in really weird ways.
            There's nothing wrong with having the emergency police number on speed dial.

            Yes, I know what you mean about the Cinderella + Feminist Macho thing ....."Not only do I want to be treated like a queen, I want to be a bad ass.....but still be treated like a lady." However, this is a social relationship issue unrelated to this thread.

            Emma, please check out the following thread for some advice.

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            • #21
              Shes only 18 and doing her best. We can't all be as brilliant as me!

              Demon, check back a GT's, a few more great people have added their supprt.

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              • #22
                Now Bri, do you wonder if her being stalked is a result of you calling attention to her website with her pics on it? It seems to have happened a few days after you posted about the websites.

                or maybe you should quit stalking her already Bri.

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                • #23
                  My humble opinion on this issue

                  There are creeps in this world who will act like that no matter what...it's really silly to blame the victim of their unwanted attention. That can happen to anyone at any point no matter what you do or do not do. You don't have to have a website to be the victim of a psycho stalker. You can dress in baggy clothes and still be stalked, attacked etc. Creeps are creeps no matter what!

                  My advice to you little demon is the same that was posted here before...document everything, call the police as well even if they can't do much at the beginning. Get an IP tracker(do a search at www.cnet.com) and get one free, you can find the abuser's ISP and contact them, keep records of your complaints.

                  If things get worse do not go anywhere alone, carry pepper spray or something to protect yourself. Call your phone company as well if you are getting calls as well as your instructor. All that will help.

                  Keep the times and dates in a journal in case things get worse as well, you might need them in the future.

                  I hope things get better for you.

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                  • #24
                    Originally posted by eXcessiveForce
                    Now Bri, do you wonder if her being stalked is a result of you calling attention to her website with her pics on it? It seems to have happened a few days after you posted about the websites.

                    or maybe you should quit stalking her already Bri.
                    OOOoooooo. Nasty Pastie.

                    Actually I would not be surprised if it was someone from Defend.Net. But I guess we will never know.

                    It is not me though. I'm into flashing.

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Thai Bri
                      It is not me though. I'm into flashing.
                      Do you make your belly go in waves as you do this? AKKGGGHH....gross. Its not me. I've got nothing to prove and get along well with lady friends.

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by HandtoHand
                        That's right, if she didn't repeatedly advertise her vulnerability on this site and others she would have ended up being stalked anyways.
                        Were you stalking her?

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                        • #27
                          I think she had enough

                          Like she said, she got enough arse chewing here so there's no sense in beating around the bush.

                          If this is not a joke and someone is truly stalking her, she needs to be really cautious and take action before becoming a victim.

                          Peace!

                          Good luck little demon, I hope that creep leaves you alone!

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                          • #28
                            Geez!

                            Thai!!!!!Such a dirty mind!

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                            • #29
                              Who me? Me?

                              I am as pure as the driven snow. The yellow bits................

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                              • #30
                                Hah hah!

                                yellow spots...

                                Anyways...I hope Little Demon is alright

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