Concerned Father

[Blue Wave Gym]

no but

Did you drink a fo'ty before writing this?

malt liqour as in 3 4oz of camo silver malrt liqour is my friday and sat ninght thing when i got hurt I basicall went on a 2 yaer 6 day a week drinking binger noow tryito keep it to 2 day a week only and maybe just slam a 12 pack so I cann rediuce the amout of megative stuuf tha happens hwhen i get faded btw st. ides and vica din don't work on me hard lig does but I get too violent.i'd never get toe up from the floor up aroung a chick though.

[Boston]

Double Standards on Treatment of of Women

this in an interesting thread, not too old, I was drawn to it since it definitely relates to what I am interested in (men and women and the martial arts) at the bottom of each page it encrouages you to go to similar threads.......I often find old ones this way and get blamed for restarting an old thread to which i say screw you, i did nto set up the system, i just dare to use it as designed..........

i had about a dozen silat martial artists at my wedding in Southeeast Aisa, they followed me down the street banging drums, walking as lowly as we could, we made our way along the planned route.....upon arriving at the wedding location the silat performers each performed a long prearranged form and then performed a couple of two person sets.........my wife to be was hidden behind a fan and i had to bribe my way to get to see my own bride (social custom that I may not agree with, but participated in for the greater good of the community), I also had to bribe people just to get to my own wedding, so i took my martial artists to another entrance.....we eventualy had my people talk to their poeple and we agreed on a suitable bribe of a ringiit or two........

I dont have kids yet as my wife nearly died a few years ago and her thyroid medical issue has made conception somewhat difficult, but trying is just as fun........

If you make her cry, I will make you cry.

i like this one, it shows one of the big double standards men face in society.........men are blamed for not being able to cry and are encouraged to cry as means of releasing their pent up feelings, but to make a woman cry is tantamount to raping her.....warranting all kinds of violence upon the guy who made her cry......maybe after we have put a severe hurting on this boy we wil find out that she was just crying cuz she had something in her eye......so, please note, that in the case of women crying we encourage folks to shoot the boyfriends first and ask questions later....

isnt it wrong to just assume a guy is up to no good straight from the start and never even give him a chance?

Of course it is wrong, but do not expect anyone to speak out against it without getting their manhood, their mental health, etc questioned.....when men get atacked, verbally or otherwise, few people are concerned, and even fewer wil take action to prevent it....

I hear that being nice works.

But people protecting women need not be nice

Another double standard regarding men and women, that of treatment in case of threats or apparent threats.............thus, people protecting women NEED NOT BE NICE, they should feel free to be as rude and crude as they wanna be..........in fact, the ruder and cruder the better.........and the corollary to that is that people protecting men must be nice at all times, or else we will know they are unbalanced and unable to maintian their cool.........

[Boston]

Let me tell ya folks, Latinoheat's post and so many of those that follows are devoid of respect for the teenage boy and it surprises me not in the least that anyone would stand up and defend teenage boys wihtout whom the human race would soon perish...........

and how do we get false rape accusations??????? One easy way is the overprotective mom and dad, figuring that suzy slut is such a good girl when in reality she cannot keep her pants on...........if she gets caught with her little nimpho ways, she can just scream "rape", and

You'll see where the intimidation stops and hiding the body parts begins.

yeah, latinoheat's posts was just a joke as was the threats directed at young men with "bad" intentions..........ever wonder why we are so willing to forgive women whose behavior is influenced negatively by hormones, but so unwilling to understand that young men's behavior is at least partly influenced by hormones and the hormonal influence may be quite difficult to ignore (it is true that young men think about sex quite frequently, but that is beyond their control and not reasonable to blame them for things beyond their control-many women past the age of 29 cannot get the idea of a baby out of their head, does that make them bad people???!?!?!?!??!?!?!

If that means posturing and growling and being as intimidating as I can in order to keep little punks with raging hormones from taking advantage of her, so what?

All i can say is try being nice, i hear that works......lol...........here we have a father painting a portrait of young men in which it can be seen how much we do not trust young boys and how much we are willing to hurt young boys for the stated goal of protecting young girls.......so you have no consideration for young boys and their needs whatsoever and you think theat the young boys should fall off their seat backwards to kiss you arse???!?!??!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?

lol.....i liked garland's comment for once.......she is right.....

why don't you just continue to hold his hand, stroking his palm with your fingers and compliment the color of his eyes, and tell him that the cut of his shirt really brings out his shoulders and pecs?

...........as if.........like i said, we are quick to overlook her hormonal issues but no such pardon is available for the teenage boy

[Tant01]

Boston,...

You have some real issues... I will thank you to find another target audience and take your cause to some other forum...

Perhaps some professional help is in order?

I'm putting you on my ignore list so a response is not needed or wanted... perhaps you'll be banned soon for your redundant off topic garbage.

I can only hope...

[BoarSpear]

Boston,...

You have some real issues... I will thank you to find another target audience and take your cause to some other forum...

Perhaps some professional help is in order?

I'm putting you on my ignore list so a response is not needed or wanted... perhaps you'll be banned soon for your redundant off topic garbage.

I can only hope...

Amen brother, this shits is absurd ignore list it is...

[blitz]

Who the hell would marry boston?!

[Sabin]

Boston,

Men are naturally protective of women. Usually.

And men who practice martial arts are likely to be even more so. So you should not expect a lot of sympathy for your views, especially on a website called 'defend.net'.

And moreover, I think that anyone who has spent much time in a high school football locker room will understand why men are assumed guilty until proven innocent when it comes to their intentions with women.

[BoarSpear]

Boston,



And moreover, I think that anyone who has spent much time in a high school football locker room will understand why men are assumed guilty until proven innocent when it comes to their intentions with women.

HAHAHAHA... OUCH AH %#@&* its still funny...

[Sabin]

No one who practices grappling has any room to call football gay.

[punkmonk]

If your not man enought to respect and own up to a father, you don't deserve the girl.
Men have almost no decency these days, much less honor. A father knows this, and has every right to protect his family.
I loved the father rules! My spouse will love them too since he's a father of a little girl and soon to get another.
Hell raisers always get girls! lol!
Peace out, peeples!

[Slavez3ro]

Well lucky for me i only deal with the parent after 3 months or so and she feel that meeting the parents is a good idea or maybe so but in respect of what he said on the rules for dating my daughter yeah i agree everything today is just free loader type and i hate the new fashion aswell.

The young ppl of today think they are the adults and th also they think they own.They own shit and attitude is something i don't need from some young punk thinking he is gonna getsome with my daughter..
Hahahaha.... comes little boys i need practice on kicking your asses and your dads if it come to that.

Don't touch what u can't have

[nordmann]

Uh-huh

What the...? Why does this thing keep double-posting my stuff?

[nordmann]

Uh-huh

i wouldnt hesitate one second to drop some bitches dad who was giving me shit and trying to intimidate me.

Hmmm...so I see you don't have a daughter. Just wait. Someday when you do, you'll understand the original post of this thread. The bond that exists between fathers and daughters is like nothing else in this world, and you'll do yourself a big favor by respecting that.

I'm not saying a little consensual hanky-panky in the back seat would necessarily get me to go off. I wouldn't be thrilled about it, but if it's what she wants, then I know I probably can't stop her. But anyone who hurts my little girl in any way is dead meat, and the prospect of spending the rest of my days behind bars for what I would be willing to do to protect her would not be a deterrent for me. Her safety comes first, and all other considerations in my life come after that. Your MA tricks won't do much against a 30-06 or a ten-guage in the hands of a man who has won running bull and English match competitions.

Respect the daddy. It'll get you a lot further his little girl anyway, because the protectiveness is a two way street. Treat the daddy right, and you'll win the little girl's heart. Diss the daddy, and the girl you're going after will never even look at you again.

[nordmann]

Congratulations!!

Nordmann,
I am going to be a new daddy soon, and I already feel a bond with my son I can't describe to people who aren't there themselves. Granted, that's not a daughter, but looking at how I feel about my son, and remembering back to when I was my little sister's "protector" I think I know what you mean. I also think it's a dangerous, dangerous thing for anyone to underestimate the ruthlessness of a father protecting his little girl.

But in fairness, the Emtyness that wrote that comment was a young and impetuous kid. He's grown a lot since that post.

Congrats on your upcoming parenthood. Just you wait, heh-heh. No matter how much you try to anticipate the joy of holding that little treasure in your arms for the first time, looking into his eyes, and hearing his cries, you'll still be amazed at how much greater the experience is than you could ever have imagined. There is probably no greater joy in all of life than that moment.

[SmallThought]

Very Funny Mr Jones.....

At the outset, i find this thread hilarious!

Now, i am not a father (as yet) and have always been on good terms and friendly with my girlfriends' families. I do, however, have a 16yo niece.

Bearing this in mind, a number of things occure to me as i read the postings above:

a/ If a father assumes the worst of every young boy his daughter brings home, what is that saying of his confidence in the upbringing and propriety, common sense & judgement he has instilled in his off-spring?

b/ If his teenage daughter does in fact bring home less desireable types on a regular basis, it may well be in rebellion of the fathers agressive and over protective nature. In which case, far from lossing the girls respect, the young fellow who stands up to the fathers over protectiveness may well represent her escape from said behaviour.

c/ If the father assumes that all young men are disrespectful, opportunistic potential rapists; what is that saying of himself as a young man? Was that, in fact his attitude toward the girls mother in the beginning? Is it in fact still his attitude only tempered by age and the constraints of marriage???

That being said, i know how protective i am of my nieces and nephews. Although i wouldn't be nasty to any young suitors, i have often joked to my partner that as a middle aged father i plan to have a billiard room with a display case full of my kung fu weapons, rifles and shotguns (none of which, by the way, do i actually own). Rather than verbally or physically intimidate the lad, i'd prefer to kill him with kindness when he visits and invite him for a few games of pool......

Needless to say, she thinks i'm being rediculous!