Men's Violence

[TNT]

Hi TNT,

What happened? Please share!

let me just say it involved a gas stove....

[squidd]

i think i've got it all figured out...

in another place, another country, hand to hand seems to have a nice solution (until he suggested bloody murder ) but i'm in the philippines guys. judges don't hand out restraining orders here even when the danger is clear and present. our judicial system grinds somewhere close to the rate of continental drift.

tnt, i've tried dumping her and almost had to pay for it with my life. you're right though. i've been working on migrating and might just get to do so (at least temporarily) by this sept. at least even if i do have to come back home, the two years i'm away will probably give her enough time to transfer her violent tendencies on the one that is gonna come next.

i know it really sounds so unchristian to pass one's burden onto another but what ther hell am i supposed to do... carry this cross so no one need ever carry it. sorry, i ain't no devil but i sure ain't no saint either.

[Tom Yum]

tnt, i've tried dumping her and almost had to pay for it with my life. you're right though. i've been working on migrating and might just get to do so (at least temporarily) by this sept. at least even if i do have to come back home, the two years i'm away will probably give her enough time to transfer her violent tendencies on the one that is gonna come next.

Say no to psycho-ho. Be prepared.

[TNT]

Squidd,
I think moving away is good if it is in your plans to do, however it is a long time between now and September. Are you with or near your family? Are they aware what's going on? Does her family know what a nut job they have on their hands. I think your family at least should have a clear history of what's happening. If possible, you should but a complaint on file with police department. Maybe you should seek legal counsel or even a therapist to help you cope with this situation. Maybe you should tell her that she has hurt you so much that she needs to get help and if she can improve who she is...and you can get over the (emotional) hurt enough(NOT)...and she truly has changed....well idk...I'm just suggesting this to buy you some time away from her. Perhaps you should tell her within earshot of family that it's over and that if she pulls anything, your family and the authorities already know her history. Look I'm not a professional,and no way advising you should do these things, they are suggestions, who knows what could trigger her. I do suggest you are careful, try to avoid being away from a group, check your vehicle carefully, and just be on guard. You are not being unChristian by breaking up with her, you have a right to live your life FULLY and HAPPILY! Drop us a line and let us know you're okay!
P.S.You can't take H2H seriously, look at his spelling

Just kidding about the spelling, H2H

[squidd]

am i supposed to laugh or cry...

Well there is no reason that you should have to move just because of this psyco girl, but if you are moving anyways you will probally okay. But she might still be obsessed with you for more than two years (women can hold a grudge over small things forever) than you are in trouble.

But why would you want to transfer the burden to somebody else, that isnt the Christian thing to do, you want to improve society, and there is only one way; Liquidate her. jk If you do send me an email saying that this is squidd, and the squidd population is exploding at a rapid rate, because of bla bla bla, and i'll delete my posts advocating termination.

Anyways if you opt not to liquidate her (which you probally wont) then i would suggest moving far far away, and staying far far away.

Note: HandtoHand does not condone bloody murder, and was speaking with toung in cheak, and will not be held responsible for any misuse of his posts. jk

you're one of a kind hand to hand!!!

you get stalked long enough, you WILL move. believe me. what really sucks is that i ain't even a head turner -- short and overweight (taking up ma to lose weight). once i hoped someone would fall for me, really like fall for me. be careful what you ask for... you might just get it.

[squidd]

LOL, i'm short, stocky and slightly over weight. Anyways if you ask me she was just looking for a desprate guy who wouldnt detect that she was a psyco-ho. Dont feal bad lots of guys fall into that trap, but thats why there are escort services.

sunnuva... then again, you're right (and mean too) . there are escort services and, where i'm at, massage parlors. thing is, there's this nagging fear of getting STD.

do any of you get this persistent nervous feeling that you might have contracted something after contracting a trick?

[guy incognito]

Yeah if they are really pricey you could get A.I.D.S. Or Aquired Income Deficiency Syndrome.

[TNT]

LOL, i'm short, stocky and slightly over weight. Anyways if you ask me she was just looking for a desprate guy who wouldnt detect that she was a psyco-ho. Dont feal bad lots of guys fall into that trap, but thats why there are escort services.

HAND2HAND!!!!!!!

[TNT]

LOL, i'm short, stocky and slightly over weight. Anyways if you ask me she was just looking for a desprate guy who wouldnt detect that she was a psyco-ho. Dont feal bad lots of guys fall into that trap, but thats why there are escort services.

I'm just countering the offensive!!.

[squidd]

if i may ask...

Yeah if they are really pricey you could get A.I.D.S. Or Aquired Income Deficiency Syndrome.

what ias the going rate where you're at? i've seen some on the net that charge hundreds of euro. i mean like... why? are theirs made of gold or sumtin'???

[TNT]

what ias the going rate where you're at? i've seen some on the net that charge hundreds of euro. i mean like... why? are theirs made of gold or sumtin'???

Squidd, dump the girl and move this discussion to some other forum!

[squidd]

sorry tnt...

Squidd, dump the girl and move this discussion to some other forum!

my apologies. got too curious.

[TNT]

my apologies. got too curious.

apology accepted. good to know you're still alive!

[squidd]

ok, ok, i'll apologize to you too

Yeah you sick little pervert, get your mind out of the gutter, and stop thinking about action all the time. This is a women's counter offensive fourm, not pimp's are us forum, with prices and listings. I mean just what kind of fourm to you think that we're operating, hear? It reall offends me that you'd think that we'd be operating on that level. If i were you i would get some psychological help or dial 911, because you nead to get your mind out of the gutter. You nead to get help, and you know it. DISGUSTING. jk

hand2hand, sorry if i offended your sensibilities. i was honest enough to say thaqt i look through that kinda stuff on the net. but i was out of line to compare prices here. so i'm sorry that i did something bad... (even if you advised me murder someone in the past)

[squidd]

moving along after "escort services"

apology accepted. good to know you're still alive!

you might be glad to know that there was a recent landmark court decision here in the philippines. the philippine courts (could be regional, appelate, or supreme) recognized "battered-wife syndrome" for the first time in acquitting a wife of killing his husband.

in gist, the decision says that it was "battered-wife syndrome" that drove her to (it think) stab her husband dead.

time to look for a shrink that will diagnose me a "battered boyfriend." then i set hand2hand's nefarious scheme into motion...