How do you chat up women ?

[holyman]

Guys,

How do you chat up women ?. What do you say to them to get them interested in you ?.

Sometimes I am scared of talking to women on buses and trains . Has anyone done this ?. How should I go about this.

[shasan]

You could try this one if you want to force a test of your MMA skills (which IS what this forum is for):

"Hi, you're ugly, but you intrigue me."

I would recommend ducking the slap and shooting in for a double-leg takedown.

[cakegirl]

Since this is an MMA forum...

I suggest next time you're on a bus or train and see a woman you'd like to chat up, you walk right up to her boyfriend and say "Man, your girl is HOT. Mind if I do her?"

[GrayGhost]

This isnt the place to ask those type of question but since you seem in need, I'll give you an task.
For the next 30 days I want you to say hi to every woman you see. Doesn't matter if she's walking down the street or in the book store. Just say Hi to every woman you see and give them a smile. Don't be concerned with talking to them or having a conversation just focus on saying Hi and smiling.

After those 30 days: Have a conversation with at least one women every day for 30 days. Doesn't matter about what. It could be about the weather or how much you hate burger king. Doesn't matter. And remember the easiest way to get a person to talk to you is to ask them about themselves (and on a date women does 80% of the talking). If they're young ask them what school they go to. How do they like it? What's their favorite subject? Their favorite teacher? Don't be concerned with seeming cool or smart. Don't even think about whether this girl likes you or not, just focus on keeping the conversation going and being comfortable. Start with small conversation and move onto longer and more deep ones. If you sense for a moment it's getting stale then Say "I gotta go talk to you later." Just go out and get comfortable with talking to women. But only do this to women you are marginaly attracted to. Take it in baby steps and don't talk to the first super model you can find. If a girl does blow you off and gives you the look, then forget her and talk to her friend. Go find someone else and don't waste your time with her.

After another 30 days. Ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. If not, ask her out on a date. Not the day before of course, give them 3 to 4 days to get ready for the date. And don't just ask one. Have a date for friday and saturday. This way you won't be dependent on one girl for pleasure. For now anyways, don't ever do this in a relationship. Cheaters don't have honor.

Above all don't take dating seriously. Don't take girls seriously. Don't allow women to control your self esteem. Your self worth is not measured by women. If a girl blows you off, so what. Go find another who won't. Dating is a game. A game to be enjoyed. When you take it seriously then you get burn, and hurt and sucidal.

[Garland]

act gay

chicks dig guys who dig dick

it's a fact!
After you've got yourself a harem of "fag-hags" wait until one of them asks you if you've ever been with a woman...etc etc...fill in from here.

or...offer those skanky looking girls on your bus...y'know the ones with the knee high boots, fish nets, and really short vinyl shorts... some rock... bound to get their knees to touch da ground.

Shit...if all that fails...you's better off battin' for the other team anyways.
Pimpin' ain't easy, but it sho is fun.

[EmptyneSs]

look, some guys are naturally smooth and get chicks easily. u obviously arent one of those guys, but thats ok because not everyone is, and not everyone has to be. alot of it comes down to ur personality, more so than ur looks. if u are friendly and kind, outgoing, and always have a smile on your face, people will notice you more and be drawn to you. do not go out and try to get on every girl u meet, u will look desperate. if u find urself in a situation were u can talk to a girl, then go for it. theres a time and place for everything.also dont think too much about what to say,or be afriad of looking dumb, just be friendly and a little silly. chicks love guys with cool sense of humor. if u can make a girl laugh and put a smile on her face, thats one of the most important things u can do. also, if u find urself frustrated, just chill and go about ur business and sooner or later u will meet a girl who will take a liking to you....well, hopefully.

now keep in mind, all of this is always easier said than done. u have to be comfortable with urself and confident before u can get girls. alot of it also comes down to being in the right place at the right time.


eh...girls are difficult

[Broadsword2004]

Just talk to them and be yourself; if they like you, over time, they will come seek out you.

[Ryu (JKD?)]

Wrong forum. Ask this question in a "dating" forum.


Garland = poser

[SOCOMSASGsG9]

hey man, i was talkin to a girl in my class, and one thing she said is that all chichs dig confidence. which is why i have been action-less for a looooong time. but yea, not over confidence, but confidence.

you know what i do? 2 things, first, maintain a helpless, harmless aura, which makes girls comfortable around you. somone on here said talk to girls wherever you go. i wouldnt, and i dont, i talk to girls in school, at work, at church, but there are very few lucky guys who are slick enough to score with random women. and to me, you sound like a more shy person, so scoring with people you meet in the mall and places may prove difficult. it is for me.

so after i make myself as innocent and unthreatening as possible, i hang out with people who are outgoing,a nd have no problem talking to girls. of course, these people must have girl friends (or wives, depending on how old you are, im talking from a teenage perspective). thier g/fs must be well respected, and it alaways helps if they are there. that way the girls arent trying to get on him, but you yourself have a foot in the proverbial female door.

of course, all this excelent theoretical planning and calculating,a nd i still so not have a girlfriend. so take my advice at your own risk.

[gregimotis]

Guys,

What do you say to them to get them interested in you ?.

10,000 years of human civilization and no clear answer yet. Even almighty GOOGLE cannot help you padowan.

[osopardo]

Even almighty GOOGLE cannot help you...

Oh, yeah?

http://www.pickupgirls.com/

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[EmptyneSs]

holyman i dont know if u noticed, but most chicks out their dont have cool bf's. most chicks have the biggest douchebags for bf's its rediculous. yeah its frustrating, but if u notice most chicks bf's are wiggers,assholes, metrosexuals, or sugar daddys. look at donal trumps nice 21 sex toy he carries on his arm everywere he goes. uh yeah, she married him for love, not the billions upon billions of dollars he has. sure u see a girl who has a normal chill bf sometimes, but the majority of women have douchebag bf's, and thats why they are always complaining about how they always end up dating dicks. keep in mind that most chicks are nuts too. im not trying to be a dick, i but its true and anyone who has been with a chick for some time knows that.

ok so u havent had any success with the ladies despite trying hard. u need to give it a rest bro, and start focusing on other things. alot of other people have posted saying the same thing, focus on other things. start working out more, train harder, and persue other things u enjoy. eventually u will come across a girl who takes a liking to u and wants to be with u. it will come when u least expect it. ur life needs to be about more than finding a chick. u need to have a true life besides that before u can get chicks and have normal relationships with them.

btw u know why going out again and again and trying to get on chicks 24-7 doesnt work? its cause that behaviour to most people looks hella desperate. it not only looks like it but it is. i know this guy who thinks u need to pimp on chicks every single chance u get. even when its the most inappropriate time u can think of. he doesnt get any chicks despite being very wealthy and decent looking. people can tell when ur desperate. nobody really digs negativity either. before u can be with chicks u need to be ok inside. lift weights, workout and do martial arts and as u get in shape and accomplish more ur confidence will naturally boost. we all want a bombass gf with a bomb ass to kick it with, but u gotta work for it.

im gonna be launching the "Weres My Bombass GF 2004 West Coast USA Tour" soon so look for me at a college campus or some shit holyman and ill give u a free bumper sticker or something.

[gregimotis]

Oh, yeah?

http://www.pickupgirls.com/

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I stand corrected. Heck, those are even some pretty hot girls on that site - if the author of the page can pick them up, surely I can make time with some sort-of hot women using his patented techniques! Check this stuff out:


"One of the things that women love to do is buy tons and loads of new shoes...So why not compliment a woman on this? Any woman would be stupid not to take notice of it, especially considering the fact that she probably spent an hour or two trying on different types."

"Great shoes! Where'd you get 'em?"

A question about my shoes? she’ll think to herself. Who is this guy?"


Holyman: next time your on the train, compliment her on her shoes and then get back to us with your success story.

[GrayGhost]

You people are knuckle heads, did you even read my complete post or did you just get to the point where I said he should say hi to every girl and then write your posts?

"on here said talk to girls wherever you go."
Socom, I didn't say have a conversation with every girl you meet. I said say Hi to every girl and then have at least one conversation a day. And if you read my entire post you would have undertstood that conversing with a women everyday was not to score but to build his self confidence and get comfortable with talking to women.

Emptyness, yes talking to every single women you meet is desperate and that why i didn't say he should do it. And WTF are you talking about that some guys are natural 'smooth'. everything is learn. Smoothness is learned. Those People who you think are naturally smooth have learned to be like that and have exposed them self to stimuli that will promote that behavior.

And I agree with you RYU, Garland does = poser

[jubaji]

Guys,

How do you chat up women ?. What do you say to them to get them interested in you ?.

Sometimes I am scared of talking to women on buses and trains . Has anyone done this ?. How should I go about this.

a) Unless you are after lesbians, stop being such a pussy.

b) Don't bother people on the bus.