dumped

[Ahsen]

LOL Excessive_Force

heres Mine:

Someone who will give youa piece of mind
Looking after: Putting the other person's needs before yours
Undestanding
Inteligent
Common grounds and values
Someone who will stick up for you
Someone who won't cause problems in your Family
Great cook
Good in MA
pretty Face

[Tant01]

True that...

A quality woman well.... I found mine
Common values and understanding are the key. Putting the other person's needs before yours is important as well.

Count your blessings buddy.

Forgiving can be good too. For those occasions when communication fails...

We all make mistakes.

[Ahsen]

Yeah thats true

heres something life:

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be IT.
The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.
I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.
You are NOT as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
Sing.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.
Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium.
Be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't, maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't, maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself, either. Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's. Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance. Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.
Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.
Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.
Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.
Be nice to your siblings; they are your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.
Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old, and when you do you'll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.
Respect your elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth

[Tom Yum]

Great song.

Most women suck away my energy rather than perpetuate it. When your partners energy level isn't in the same ball park, someone's got to adjust (and its never the person with the lower energy lol). I've met very, very few women that I can't keep up with

Back on topic...so what do I define as a quality woman:

1. Athletic or in decent shape.

I've just found that women who were in decent shape manage their stress a helluva lot better, are more attractive (duh) and have discipline which spills over into other areas of their lives.

2. Kind.

By kind, I mean generally positive and warm (the opposite of bitchy and cold).

3. Considerate.

Doesn't gossip too much isn't too catty (I understand the fashion competition thing when we go out - but it shouldn't be a mood breaker or a constant source of entertainment).

4. Straight-forward.

Says what she means; never has to back pedal.

5. Faithful.

Monogamous.

[blitz]

Oh my..

You seem to be making the foolish mistake of judging a woman by her inner beauty instead of the simple idea of what bounces and how much.

[DickHardman]

nowdays i dont even try talking to women anymore. it seems pointless. id rather just sit in my room by myself.

[Tom Yum]

Oh my..

You seem to be making the foolish mistake of judging a woman by her inner beauty.

If I'm going to judge a woman in terms of compatability, the deciding factor is her inner beauty.

Dating is a whole 'nother ballpark...(oh brother...lol)

https://www.laddertheory.com

[shaolin-warrior]

Slim,
Met this great girl in 1983, we dated for a while, nothing serious just friends. We had allot in common, but we just didn't click, I was young and my friends meant everything to me. I was a Gym rat and in the Air Force and did allot of traveling around with my job. We hooked up again off and on, long story short, this November we've been married 20 years. You never know who you'll meet and when in the future your paths might cross again. I don't think man chooses his destiny, I think we have to do what we can until our destiny reveals itself to us. Get out there and meet people and have fun and be yourself. Your still young enough to make positive changes in your life. If there is some part of yourself that you feel needs improvement, work on it. We are all works in progress.
Peace S.-W.

[gregimotis]

If I'm going to judge a woman in terms of compatability, the deciding factor is her inner beauty.

Sir, I'm going to have ask to see your man-card, please.




-nice hedgehog btw.

[Tom Yum]

Sir, I'm going to have ask to see your man-card, please.

Hey, that's not my wallet in there...and no I'm not glad to see you

-nice hedgehog btw.

frog = greggi, hedgehog = tom

[Tom Yum]

Good in MA

Oh yeah, she's got to enjoy doing MA....like, two to three times a day, with me of course

[Garland]

Unrequited love. 'Tis the human condition. When I was going through a breakup I went through a cycle of revenge dating, depression, binge drinking, and then I gradually decided after some time that I would get through and I did. I found God in the shambles of my life and I am totally healed now.

Maybe some roadwork and kicking the thai pads will do you some good.

****...I'm still in the binge drinking and depression stage.
love-hate...strange shit.

"I've always loved you, I want you back you evil heartless cheating whore."
Lolz.

...aw...I hurt my feelers.

[Garland]

Why Tanto1, you are an ass, you dont have a grip on anything. I am not an idiot. Her girlfriend didnt have any thing to to with it. So will you stop criticezing me over my spelling. This is whats wrong with the world, assholes like you sit on the computer all day and do nothing but criticezing people to make them feel better about them self. Pretty sad man. I have a question for you, did i ask to be messed with? No i just wanted so advice about it all.
Thank you GQchriss.

You think you have it bad...shut the **** up. Seriously, I had the shit happen much harder, and I KNOW it could've been worse...I could've walked with a souveiner. You want to hear a really fucked up story...let me know and I'll pm you...

unless everyone else on the board wants to hear Dr. G. self disclose the follies of his last relationship in depth...

[Garland]

And on a related subject:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Giant_isopod

holy shit...it looks like my ex!

wonder what that would taste like...lobster and cockroach? I want to get a live one and stick it in somebodies backpack.

[Garland]

dating is overrated. have you tried the soothing comfort of solitude? or the gentle caress of deep introspection?

stop trying to push masturbation...bastard.