Bad Ass Girlfriends!

[Tom Yum]

I created this thread as a tribute to bad-ass girlfriends of past, present and to be. That's right: the girlfriend/s who go above and beyond in their duties to keep their men happy simply because...they want to....y'all know who you are....

You cook from time to time, even though you don't like cooking, but you try anyways.

You pick up some extra goodies from the grociery store just because you were thinking about us.

You know how to keep us home during the weekends

You watch a football game, action-martialarts-scifi-horror flick, UFC/muaythai/boxing match with us because you enjoy hanging out with us.

Lastly, you're there for us....



We love ya!

[DickHardman]

your never gonna get any

[Tom Yum]

I don't think you get it, Hardman. This isn't about trying to score; its about bad-ass girlfriends, the kind you've never had and never will with your attitude...

You don't have the heart to put yourself out there, face possible rejection, understand why, start over and keep going.

You sit back on your couch, smokin' your bong waiting for the girls to come to you and when they don't, you blame them or just say 'its not your style' to put yourself out there.

I don't want lots of gals - just one good one.

[DickHardman]

I don't think you get it, Hardman. This isn't about trying to score; its about bad-ass girlfriends, the kind you've never had and never will with your attitude...

You don't have the heart to put yourself out there, face possible rejection, understand why, start over and keep going.

You sit back on your couch, smokin' your bong waiting for the girls to come to you and when they don't, you blame them or just say 'its not your style' to put yourself out there.

I don't want lots of gals - just one good one.

no tom, you are the one who doesnt get it, no pun intended. you are so hung up on the nice guy thing that any chick you meet will automatically think you are a weak ass pushover, especially if you are spouting off cheesey bullshit like the stuff you posted here. at best, you will get to be that shoulder to cry on when she is upset about the guy she actually likes, the guy who isnt you. you can keep trying to play the bs nice guy card over and over again, but filling in the role of the gay friend is probably the best you could ever hope for if thats what you want to do.

[Tom Yum]

no tom, you are the one who doesnt get it, no pun intended. you are so hung up on the nice guy thing

because ultimately I'm a nice guy when it comes to courtship, even in the face of rejection. And I'm okay with that.

Sure its sucks and yeah it makes me grumble a little, but I'd rather be myself than someone else.

that any chick you meet will automatically think you are a weak ass pushover, especially if you are spouting off cheesey bullshit like the stuff you posted here.

Hey if you find it cheesy, you're entitled to your opinion. You took the effort and energy to reply.

Bullshit? Hardly.

I'm looking for a very specific kind of gal, Hardman....stay with me here....

at best, you will get to be that shoulder to cry on when she is upset about the guy she actually likes, the guy who isnt you.

and there's nothing wrong with that. You learn a lot by closing your mouth, lending your ears, your brain and your heart to a woman.

You've made a pretty accurate generalization about most gals not being attracted to nice guys, Hardman.

I don't want every gal out there, especially those who aren't attracted to me, to nice guys, whom are headcases, do alot of drugs, haven't properly dealt with past luggage or whom are cold-hearted.

Have at them, Hardman.

I've got enough experience to know when a gal isn't interested, can drop it and move on.

A man knows how to guard his heart, keep his head on straight and keep his eye on the goal because he's refined exactly what it is he's looking for.

He has a purpose.

A man can get knocked down, brush himself off and get back up and continue forward. Its tough, isn't it?

you can keep trying to play the bs nice guy card over and over again, but filling in the role of the gay friend is probably the best you could ever hope for if thats what you want to do.

I don't know if this means anything to you or not, but don't you find age and experience a good thing?

[DickHardman]

because ultimately I'm a nice guy, even in the face of rejection. And I'm okay with that.

Sure its sucks and yeah it makes me grumble a little, but I'd rather be myself than someone else.



Hey if you find it cheesy, you're entitled to your opinion. You took the effort and energy to reply.

Bullshit? Hardly.

I'm looking for a very specific kind of gal, Hardman....stay with me here....



and there's nothing wrong with that. You learn a lot by closing your mouth, lending your ears, your brain and your heart to a woman.

You've made a pretty accurate generalization about most gals not being attracted to nice guys, Hardman.

I don't want every gal out there, especially those who aren't attracted to me, to nice guys, whom are headcases, do alot of drugs, haven't properly dealt with past luggage or whom are cold-hearted.

Have at them, Hardman.

I've got enough experience to know when a gal isn't interested, can drop it and move on.

A man knows how to guard his heart, keep his head on straight and keep his eye on the goal because he's refined exactly what it is he's looking for.

He has a purpose.

A man can get knocked down, brush himself off and get back up and continue forward. Its tough, isn't it?



I don't know if this means anything to you or not, but don't you find age and experience a good thing?

give it a rest already. you try way too hard man. i think you are just another one of those guys whos only problem was that you just needed to chill out a bit and everything would be ok for you, but no you just refuse to chill out. all you had to do was just chill for a bit tom and you would be ok, but you want to be difficult instead. thats really all it is isnt it? cause all this self righteous nonsense you keep trying to talk about is ludicrous, and we both know its female repellent. you either need to just chill the **** out or you are afraid of commitment and you are just trying to sabotage your own chances with females by acting like a cheesy pushover.

[Tom Yum]

give it a rest already. you try way too hard man. i think you are just another one of those guys whos only problem was that you just needed to chill out a bit and everything would be ok for you, but no you just refuse to chill out. all you had to do was just chill for a bit tom and you would be ok, but you want to be difficult instead. thats really all it is isnt it?

You're reading too hard into the post. Just take the message as it is, bro and respond to it.

cause all this self righteous nonsense you keep trying to talk about is ludicrous, and we both know its female repellent.

I don't think its ludicrous at all. Yeah, its frustrating at times but you have to re-group and get back at it.

you either need to just chill the **** out or you are afraid of commitment

Where did you get the fear of commitment thing?

Guarding your heart just means that you're waiting for what you think is the right person - A gal whom you could have alot in common with, talk too, are on the same page, share chemistry.

It doesn't mean that you don't go out with someone cause you're so cold; it doesn't mean you can't go out and have fun.

and you are just trying to sabotage your own chances with females by acting like a cheesy pushover.

Hey, I put my true self out there and if I get vibes or cues that the gal thinks I'm acting like a cheesy pushover I know she's the wrong gal for me and I'm okay with walking away. People mistake kindness for weakness but that's just the way the world works.

[Ghost]

tom,this thread is meaningless without naked photos.

[Tom Yum]

tom, this thread is meaningless without naked photos.

LOL...yeah, well there's that side too

[KickNit]

I just want to know one thing: Have you two set a date yet?

[Ahsen]

I just want to know one thing: Have you two set a date yet?

Who Dick and Tom ?

[Ghost]

all we need now is harry and we have the perfect 3some.

[Ahsen]

I didn't see that one coming
Good one ghost LOL !

[KickNit]

lol

Perfect set up. Ally oop!

[Tom Yum]

I'm just gonna sit back and laugh now...LOL!