advice needed.....

[Bjjexpertise@be]

Good advice h2h I think I might try that...
I'd just like to comment on how this post's topic changed from helping one guy to another.

[Bjjexpertise@be]

If grappling is your forte use grappling to get him in a position in which you can easily control him while striking.

i.e. Knee on belly and mount position?

[Bjjexpertise@be]

If what I am imagining is correct, wouldn't that allow the possibility of a strong bridge to throw me off?

EDIT:Spelling error

[Bjjexpertise@be]

Have you ever mounted someone? If you haven't, when you mount people, they instinctively do one of 2 things.
1. They turn to their back
2. They try to bridge you off. A bridge is when someone thrusts their hips in the air to throw you off or to unbalance you to throw you off.

[Bjjexpertise@be]

The side control "rickson style" seems pretty neat. He wraps his right leg around his opponet's waist, uses other to balace, then traps one of their hands and starts beating them to a pulp.

[Pastyti]

I'm not sure what I'm gunna do here. I dunno if you guys grew up in america and have faced these kind of problems or not but i'm gunna ask you anyway. Has stuff like this ever happened to you guys? If so what did you gusy do about it?

Jubaji I really dunno what to do seem to have tried everything...

Hey, have you ever heard the expression "Sticks and Stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me"? Leave the kid alone, he's only making himself look a prat. If you do damage to him you could find yourself (and or your parents) on the wrong side of an assult charge, and, being sued, you might also find yourself being excluded from school (any school as schools talk to eachother and if your barred from one you are most likely barred from a hell of a lot in your area) In either of these instances your education would stop from that point on. Excercise some self control, in your own interests.

[Pastyti]

Balls. If the kid isn't being physicaly endangered there is no and I mean NO need to become violent. Remember if he takes the first pysical action, he is the agressor and logicaly therefore, in the wrong immediately.

[Pastyti]

Well you could always not tell the teacher; just attack him when nobody else is around, insist that he attacked you, that you were acting in self-defense and that he had been physically abusive to you the past.

It was just that this time something told you that he was out for blood and wanted to hurt you bad, so you had to stop him, because unlike the other times you were concerned for your safety/well being.

You just weren't able to control him, he just kept on struggling and thrusting his hands towards you towards your eyes. He had to be stopped while you were still healthy, which is why the shit was pounded out of him.

Listen you damn moron, all that is happening is the kids getting words thrown at him. To severly cause physical damage will solve nothing. It will most likely generate a revenge mentality in the other kid AND all his mates. You could also, depending on the nature of the other kids family end up with an inter family fude, in turn causing vast dammage or death to both sides of the argument. Start engaging the brain not the fists, feet, knees and elbows. In 99.9% of instances violence solves nothing. For Christ's sake grow up.

[HtTKar]

If I was in your position, i'd definitely take the advise of Chilly Dog. Get involved, document everything. You're going to have to play the game. Does he do this because he is racist? Or does he do this simply because he doesnt like you? Maybe you seem as a threat to him? In any case, you have to play the right game for this to work in your favor. Jumping this kid and then lying about it afterwords destroys any honour you have. You should never do anything that you are afraid to admit to. This is the sign of a coward.

You have proven that you are physically stronger than he, now prove how much smarter you are. Seek out help as Chilly Dog insisted, document everything. If you can get signatures, go for it. You have no need to attack this person, if he physically attacks you of course you kick his teeth in. If he attacks you mentally, your going to have to beat him at that game. But you have to get involved. He has to learn his lesson from people that he respects as authorities. He has to know where the line is drawn. He has probably been taught racist behavior from his parents, and if he doesn't grow up will pass these beliefs on to his friends and children. This is not the type of education that schools should allow. Whatever you do, think smart, and you might learn alot while dealing with this temporary problem. If you think just about using muscle or lying, you learn nothing.