Fear......

[KenshiRyan]

lol true Garland, as soon as I wake up after the dream I think "I have to train more" so theres one advantage to them, I dont have them every night but then again I have had one where Iv beaten the hell outve a attacker.

[Tom Yum]

lol I thank my martial art for my attitude, by agro I mean if he gets into a fight, he would get all angry and crazy.
He just told me one evening "im going smash you bastard" and hasnt yet told me why lol, although there has been a similar incident with him in the past when he threatend me and didnt do anything about it.

Why would this guy say that?

[gabbah]

Why would this guy say that?

They're 16 years old. You quest to find logic where there is none will fail miserably...

[Tom Yum]

They're 16 years old. Your quest to find logic where there is none will fail miserably...

There's a reason for everything, gabbah.

The 16 year old bully had a motivation for sending the threatening message to this youngster.

1. He did it just for kicks to get a reaction i.e. pulling a prank.
2. He's just a mean kid and found someone to take his frustrations out on.
3. He's a jealous/insecure kid who needs to pull others down to bring himself up.
4. He was chemically off balance i.e. he uses drugs that make him aggressive.

There are probably more circumstances that we don't know about.

If Kenshi can figure out the main reasons for this bully's motivation and respond to it approriately, he can win the fight without ever having to throw a kick.

[Tom Yum]

They're 16 years old. You quest to find logic where there is none will fail miserably...

Hey, we weren't talking about human nature and dating...lol.

[gabbah]

Not dating, but human nature though... like your number 3 there.. innit?
Anyway, never mind me. Carry on.

[Tom Yum]

Not dating, but human nature though... like your number 3 there.. innit?

That could be it.

Anyway, never mind me. Carry on.

Gotcha.

[KenshiRyan]

Yea I had a feeling He probly did it for kicks as hes done somthing like this before, and done nothing afterward.

[Tom Yum]

Yea I had a feeling He probly did it for kicks as hes done somthing like this before.

Does this kid have health problems - physical or mental?

[KenshiRyan]

he doesnt have any physical problems and I doubt mental, but with the way hes acting Id say thats a mental problem in itself.

[krazynayba]

In this situation it is good to fight fire with fire. This kid is obviously trying to talk you down so what you do is gather all the information you can about him, how he acts, talks, walks, and try and assess why he is doing this. Be smart about things, try and trap him in his own words. If he threatens you, threaten him back, but not in front of his friends because in front of friends he will feel secure. Try and get his postal address, email address, telephone number, any details you can think of that you can use against him. If you get his phone number call up from a payphone or a private number or "unlisted" as americans would probably call it, change your voice a little and scare some sense into him. People like this can and should be dealt with in a manner which all the bad they have done comes back to bite them in the ass. Fighting isnt easy if he has backup, no matter how skilled you are at martial arts if you are faced with multiple opponents it will intimidate you. If you manage to catch him while hes not around his friends, try talking to him and reasoning with him, this you should actually do before you start any threats, just to see how "ruthless" or "mean" he is. Some people you can reason with, others you can only bash until they submit. And if you are fighting him and you do have the upper hand, make him beg for mercy, it will take away the dignity that he doesnt even have.

These people are pathetic, worthless, and have absolutely no dignity, they must be dealt with.

P.S. ive had the same dreams, ive had ones where i cant fight back and ones where i beat the crap outta someone

[KenshiRyan]

lol ty ill be sure to keep that all in mind, thanks for your opinion.

[g-bells]

if at all possible keep walking away, nothing good about fighting, and it proves your maturiy. there i've been politicaly correct and after saying that, if this kid procceeds to attack you, stand your ground and let your instincts take over. a good headbutt followed by a couple of elbows finished by a few knees will put this thug in his place

[KenshiRyan]

Im not going to walk away, because if I do that and they dont try to stop me, ill just get hassled for ages afterward, this doesnt mean I want to fight, but I will stand up for myself no matter what and if that means fighting for it then so be it.

[g-bells]

Im not going to walk away, because if I do that and they dont try to stop me, ill just get hassled for ages afterward, this doesnt mean I want to fight, but I will stand up for myself no matter what and if that means fighting for it then so be it.

then stand your ground, if it'smultiple opponents get an equalizer. it makes no sense to fight mutiple op empty handed no matter how good you are/are not. if you stand your ground, you may take some shots, but get your in and maybe it will stop it