Do you go easy on the female grapplers??

[Biker]

You have to ask yourself one question: Are you there to learn AND help the women to learn or are you just there for the ego boost when you beat someone who is probably physically smaller and weaker than you?

[kluten]

hmmmm

in the classes that i attend there is some females. ithey tell me that i should't go easy on them, but i can't help it. i start out easy and incresing while fighting. I never go over the point where i think she can't take it. She learns more to fight with a stronger opponent and i learn to hold back. Everybody gains at this.

[MrPoopy]

I've only grappled with a female once, and since she was not a small girl, i didn't go too easy on her. I held back whenever possible.

[Szczepankiewicz]

I train to train. I am at least 2 times heavier and about 5 times stronger than the girls in Judo or Jujutsu. I provide just enough resistance to make it a strong challenge.

If not I would end up seriously hurting some of them. I don't even go all out against most guys I train with.

It's not that I'm anything great, it's just that no one learns anything by me beating the snott out of them.

However, when I spar the black and brown belts in Judo and JJ, I go all out. They give me all I can handle

It all depends on the situation.

SZ

[Fighter]

Exactly what SZ said. I havent sparred whith any chicks but you would go heavy on a novice but is she was ann experienced fighter you would probably have to ho hard.

[Guest]

More evidence.

that Horny is a........

WANKER! And a wanker with a big ego to boot.

I have only ever done Ne Waza with one female. She is called Vicky and is actually quite good. She'd kick the crap out of most untrained men in my opinion.

I don't go easy on her. If I did she would twist my head off. In general though I find it more beneficial (to both parties) to guage your intensity to their ability. I often provide a token resistance for people not as good as me, and let them get me in Hold Downs etc. I then fight like mad to get out. That way they can learn attacks, and I can learn defence.

Gender is not really an issue, unless you are a Wanker, like Horny.

[Guest]

Oh look everyone. Another picture. Well my o my. It is so funny I can hardly stop my sides from splitting.........

[Ice Phoenix]

Keep the pictures coming Rorny! (They're a nice addition nobody else uses!)

Don't you LOVE grappling with chicks?

I sure do. There's this one very attractive chick at my club who's my age! She's not as skilled as me so I do tend to hold back a little, but only a little!

Besides, it's much more fun to roll around with her than simply submit her the first chance I get. We normally go by time limits of like 2 minutes at our club, so I just roll with her till like 1:50 and then tap her out in the last few seconds, LOL, very convenient!

[Guest]

Why Horny, is that your mother? She's a darling...... I bet you're a dead ringer.

[Guest]

Well, I'm sure she has her good qualities. I bet she doesn't log into internet discussion boards under a variety of disguises and then spends time agreeing with herself!

You are at the cutting edge of comedy! The same joke again and again - posting a pic and saying it is someone else. How long can it carry on being funny? Well, the first was funny, the second marginally amusing, and it's been downhill since then.

I bet you said "poo poo" alot when you were a kid. I bet you still do! WHAT A WANKER!

[Fighter]

Rorny you IDIOT stop posting crap and do something useful with your life.

And as for the meaning of wanker go ask your mummy wittle boy. LOL stop kiddin yourself and taklk about MA for a change.

[MadMax]

Go technical, but never let them tap me. If they are good I try and keep it at their level without muscle. I tend to do this with anybody who is smaller and has less strength.

[Fighter]

Today I borrowed a book from the Library called Wrestling for Fun its about that kind of stuff. Has anyone read it.