The right martial art for me

[Shademan]

so i have been searching for the right martial art for me. Earlier i have treid both taekwondo, which i felt were to stiff and strict, and Ninjutsu, which i really liked but felt wasnt right for me.
How can decide what martial art is the right one for me?
Now i know discipline tend to be a advantage in martial arts, but i am more of the "free spirited" type...
i have looked abit into southern praying mantis style but mainly just because of its visual appeal. I do like however that it dont have to many kicks. kickin' aint my best move.

Hope that anyone can help!

[Batucada]

Muay Thai in conjunction with BJJ IMHO.
Best of luck,
B.

[FitnessRubber]

You just have to study, my friend. There are a lot of styles out there. If you don't like kicking then you should stay away from those styles that rely on kicking a lot, or that have a lot of kicking moves.

[Garland]

Now i know discipline tend to be a advantage in martial arts, but i am more of the "free spirited" type...

hippyjutsu.

or tai chi chuan.

that seems "free spirited" enough.

potchulli kwon do?