Dating Fat Girls Discussion

[Bjjexpertise@be]

Once again it's a boring friday night with me stuck at home so I thought I'd spark some discussion.
So the topic of the day is: Dating a big girl, would you do it?
And by big I don't mean in Hollywood figures since any person who weighs more than 110 pounds would be considered "obese" to them, but actually obese or severely overweight.
America's population seems to be in an ever growing statistic for obesity and it seems to almost become the norm these days. Statistics show that 33% of the US population is morbidly obese. In other words, if you're sitting on a bus and the you aren't fat then the two people sitting next to you are (rough example).

So here are some questions for you today,
Would you date a girl who's obese or overweight?
With America's overweight population rising every year do you think that it would eventually be socially acceptable to be severely overweight?

Lastly, a video to get you guys going:
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OUzvmJUNQSY[/YOUTUBE]

[Bjjexpertise@be]

So I guess I'll kick things off with my opinion:

Personally, I would not date a woman who's overweight. I personally stay very active and try very hard to keep fit and stay in shape and I can't bare the thought of dating (one night stands too for that matter) someone who doesn't even try to stay healthy keep their body in shape.
Obesity is physically bad for your health and mentally as well. One may be depressed as a result of having a hard time finding a significant other or just not being as socially accepted.
Studies show that being overweight is one of the few prejudices that is socially acceptable by society today. Take a look on the playground and you might find kids making fun of the fat kid. Go watch a movie and you'll usually find one or two fatjokes in there as well. But I digress.

As for the second part of the question, I think that if obesity rates keep going up then they'll become the norm and athletic and in-shape people will be looked at as "vain people obsessive about their bodies."

Well that's all I got, what do you chaps and lasses have to say?

[Tant01]

Some big girls are YUMMY. I enjoy voluptuous.

[GQchris]

Some big girls are YUMMY. I enjoy voluptuous.

Sounds like someone has settled

[GQchris]

big girls need luvin too

[Bjjexpertise@be]

Some big girls are YUMMY. I enjoy voluptuous.

How much poundage can they have and still be considered voluptuous?

[kingoftheforest]

I'm not fat I'm fluffy

Fat chicks are like mopeds.

Fun to ride till your friends see you on them.

But seriously, I feel that if you would allow yourself to be come that overweight and ignore the fact that you're slowly killing yourself, you have no self respect.

If you can't respect yourself enough to stay at least healthy there must be some kind of serious underlying mental health issue there as well.

And if you can't respect yourself how can I expect you to have any respect for me?

It is a growing and terrible problem, and the quick fix of plastic surgery is not helping the problem.

I guess if it gets too bad we could move to Europe and just bring a dentist with us.

[Bjjexpertise@be]

Fat chicks are like mopeds.

Fun to ride till your friends see you on them.

But seriously, I feel that if you would allow yourself to be come that overweight and ignore the fact that you're slowly killing yourself, you have no self respect.

If you can't respect yourself enough to stay at least healthy there must be some kind of serious underlying mental health issue there as well.

And if you can't respect yourself how can I expect you to have any respect for me?

It is a growing and terrible problem, and the quick fix of plastic surgery is not helping the problem.

I guess if it gets too bad we could move to Europe and just bring a dentist with us.

I agree with you. I had a roommate last year who kept arguing with me about the topic.
"What if they're genetically predispositioned to be fat?"
"What if they're happy the way they are?"
Pffft, please. Genetics isn't going to give you 30%body fat. That argument is just ridiculous. What if they're happy they way they are? Well why should they be happy and satisfied that they're killing themselves donut after donut?

I hate it when overweight people are super "confident" with themselves who think they're hot shit and make it a point to hate skinny people.

Gee can't stop ranting. Ok I'll stop now

[Tom Yum]

It depends on how well the gal carries her weight...

If she has curves, carries her weight well and takes care of herself, somewhat overweight or kinda big doesn't matter, like these gals






If she's busting out all over the place and has no shape and is badly overweight, its going to be hard to develop any kind of attraction.

[kingoftheforest]

Like them Big N' Tasty's from Mc D's bro.

Like my older bro (who's into biguns) says.

"Fat chicks got low self esteem and they can't run fast, so they're easier to date cause they'll settle for less and they can't catch you when you run away"

[Guest]

I'm probably lucky cos I live in the UK.

Women here are mostly gorgeous, in all shapes and sizes, but mostly those sizes don't stretch much past very curvy - which suits me. At the risk of coming across like a metrosexual, I'm not really bothered about a woman's weight if her mind and her personality turn me on. Or if she can suck a golfball through a hose, that helps too.

Most of the men in the UK are beer-bellied, arrogant, chauvanist wankers anyway so it makes it easier for us ripped, humble, sensitive types to butter a larger proportion of muffin. And if that muffin comes in larger portions, its all good.

The bigger the cushion the sweeter the pushin.

[Garland]

I once caught me a 220+ pounder...yeeehhaaaaaaa...

Somehoe...how...I end up catching the carp too...so this one was WACK ass crazy. Dropped her like a soon-to-be SIDS baby.

[Bjjexpertise@be]

I once caught me a 220+ pounder...yeeehhaaaaaaa...

Somehoe...how...I end up catching the carp too...so this one was WACK ass crazy. Dropped her like a soon-to-be SIDS baby.

Big girls realize they have to be freaky in the sack or they can't compete with their skinnier counter parts.

[jubaji]

I'm probably lucky cos I live in the UK.

Women here are mostly gorgeous, in all shapes and sizes.

I passed this post along to a few friends of mine from the UK and they haven't stopped laughing yet.

[Tant01]

I think every woman has her own charms. Sometimes we just need to look a little deeper to find it.